With most young
adults turning of age means adventure, freedom and responsibilities. I remember when I turned 21 years old I did
not know what to do with my life. I was
single, living on my own and working on a career in the real estate
industry. Still I felt I was missing
something in my life. Most of my friends
were married with children and enjoying their lives. I thought having a boyfriend would make
me feel better but it did not so I decided to concentrate on my career and
forget about men.
Then one day
while working for a finance company I had the responsibilities of collecting
real estate loans. I called a customer
of ours and reminded him that his mortgage payment was due. I then asked if he knew of a certain guy
named Curtis and was he still working there.
Of course this guy was working there and he put me on hold to go get
him. I just stared at the phone
speechless because I didn’t want to talk to him I was just being nosy.
Curtis got on
the phone and we started talking, than all of a sudden we were making lunch
plans. These luncheons turned into
dinners and the movies. During our 3
years of hanging around each other we both were not interested in a relationship, we planned on remaining good friends.
A challenging
situation came into my life and I was not sure of what I was going to do. It was Curtis who was there to handle the
situation and he handled it smoothly and efficiently. A few days later I woke up and realized that
this man who was there for me continuously without fail is the man I am falling
in love with. I couldn’t get him out of
my mind; I felt a tingling feeling of joy and happiness whenever I was with him
or thought of him. I did not know this
but Curtis was feeling the same way with me.
We realized that we were both in deeply in love with each other. I am not saying that we have a life of happily
ever after. We truly do have our
arguments, life’s challenges and bumps in the road in our marriage, but we are
in love with each other. We just
celebrated our 25th Wedding Anniversary in June 2012.